Fighting the Change, to Remain the Same

If there is one thing that Humans have issues with, it’s change. Whether it’s a change in jobs, political structure, government, environment, family, friends, home, etc.  We have issues when it comes to change.  We stand there floundering, wondering what we are going to do now.  We fight with every fiber to keep things as they are, never realizing that it’s about change.  It’s about adapting to change.  It’s about the learning.  We are here to learn.  We forget that as we grow “up”.  We are here to learn.

When someone gets laid off, it’s a freak out, a surprise, an inconvenience, as there are bills to pay, there are places to be, and there is SO MUCH to do.  We fill our days with the things to do, that make us, or ALLOW us to forget the center, the heart, the spirit, the home of why we are here.  We will fill the day with sports, work, school, shopping, the next big thing, forgetting the family, the love, the nature of the surroundings.

We seek familiar surroundings, because we generally view that as “safe”.  Safety in numbers, they say, or safety in solitude.  We look at those who are different, with hostility.  Even the most open minded individual, can be close minded to those individuals or events that are different, that bring the change that we are meant to learn from.  We seek to control that which is uncontrollable.  Living life isn’t about staying in the stasis of safety, it’s about learning new things, meeting new people, accomplishing different things, learning the center.

We want to change the World, but we don’t want to change the environment.  Yet to change the World, you have to change your environment.  You have to be able to change YOUR world to change THE world.  That can’t happen if we are too fearful to change or stubborn.

I did both today.  I got up today, got dressed, finished my curtains, did some brunch, and then cleaned.  I also sent out some emails, texts, and messages on new available times for my business.   If I want to change my circumstance, then I have to change MY World, so I can then change the World around me.  Some of the things I did today was about changing MY World, so I can change the World AROUND me.

Now I’m going out for some Gelato!

Don’t Forget to enjoy the small moments.  Sometimes, that’s all we have.

 

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Changing the View

Love is Love, regardless of the language, race, religion, gender, ethnic, orientation, etc you are from.

Do onto others, as you would onto you.
What you put out, comes back.
What you put out, comes back three fold.

When we Judge others, or see in anger, hurt, fear, or hate, it is generally reflected back to us in some manner, be it thought or “karma” or in the Universe that surrounds us.

What a different World would it be if we saw with Love instead of judgement. What different World would it be if we saw in Love instead of anger. What a different World it would be if we saw with Love instead of Fear, or Hate.

So many people judge first, complain about it later, and get confused why things aren’t quite working, and repeat.

But if you make the choice to look out in Love, and not judgement, hate, fear, or anger, how does this then change the outcome? It’s a choice on how you wish to see the World and your fellows. It’s an easy choice, but difficult at the same time. It means overriding a thought process that has lived in your head for years. It’s reprogramming your consciousness to see differently. Some can do that with a switch, others it takes practice. Work at it. Some work at it and give up, because it takes them outside their comfort zone, or they feel it is just not worth it.

To see the World in Love, changes YOUR World as well. When you see the World in Love and Gratitude, then you’ll see more and more in the same light, and then a funny thing happens, the World around you changes to fit the way you see the World.

To change the World, YOUR world has to change.